Thursday, September 27, 2012

Friendship Tea


Do you begin your day with a cup of tea? Or maybe you enjoy your tea in the afternoon. What is more comforting and relaxing than a cup of tea? My answer is to share a pot of tea with a friend.

On Tuesday afternoon, I enjoyed  tea and lunch with a friend. We lingered over our tea and salads.

Shopping after tea is always a good idea. 




Tuesday, September 18, 2012

The Best and the worst

We Brits are feeling pretty pleased with ourselves. We may be small, but we can certainly put on a show! First the Diamond Jubilee celebrations, then the Olympic Games, and now, the Paralympics. Even people not wildly into sport had to admit it was good. Folk were helpful, friendly and tolerant. The 80,000 (mainly) British supporters who crowded into the stadium each day, cheered not just for their fellow countrymen and women, but for all the valiant athletes who took part. They were fair-minded and generous in their support and admiration. The newspaper coverage was all positive. ‘The best games ever’. For once, I was proud to be a Brit. Yes indeed, the games brought out the best in everyone. Or almost everyone.
It’s a shame that such occasions can bring out the best, but sadly, the worst in folk. Take the experiences of my acquaintance, Anne, who was one of the volunteer ‘gamesmakers’, who gave up three weeks of the summer by performing all the necessary background, unseen task  to help keep things running smoothly. They had no say in what role they were given. Anne was assigned to be a driver, to ferry VIPs around the various venues.
“To be honest, I wasn’t too pleased to get that particular job”. She told us. “In my opinion, no-one is more important than anyone else. We are all equal in God’s eyes”.
But one small perk of being a volunteer was that she got to watch some of the events when time allowed. Anne witnessed the long jump for blind competitors. To someone with reasonable eyesight, it is almost inconceivable to think that anyone with near total blindness would be able to perform this particular event, and so Anne described to us in great detail, just how they overcame their disability with the assistance of guides and mentors. The huge crowd was asked to be quiet so that the athlete could hear his/her cue.
“It was truly amazing to experience that. The overwhelming noise in the stadium fell silent. You could hear a pin drop.The request was universally respected.”
 Then, these unsung heroes, the mentors and guides first positioned the athletes at the end of the runway, then stood at the far end, immediately in front of the pit, and with a series of claps, getting faster as the jumper neared the take-off point, helped indicate the progress up the runway, before stepping out of the way when the athlete hit the board and launched into the unknown.
“Such implicit trust in another.” Anne marvelled.”It was a most humbling thing to see.”
But then, there was the VIP……The BMW 5 series that had been allocated for Anne’s use was kept in the car pool. Each time it was taken out, it had to be security checked, and likewise, on its return. Most of the Olympic venues were within easy walking distance of .the main stadium, but to drive there was quite a different proposition, which involved leaving the pool, going through the security checks, driving a circuitous, one-way route around part of London, to re-enter the complex at the far side, on to the destination, then back to the pool and check-in.
Anne did this jaunt many times, and got quite used to both the procedures and that particular part of the capital city.
One evening, having arrived to take a certain individual to his venue, she was told she could hand over the keys, since he would be wanting to use the vehicle later. This was against all the Olympic protocol, so Anne had to tell him this wasn’t possible, and that she must return the car to the pool. And besides, the particular destination this time was, according to Anne, no more than 500 yards away, it was a beautiful summer’s evening, so not unreasonably, she suggested it might be more sensible to walk, rather than have to go through all the above. He declined and insisted on being chauffeured there.
 “I couldn’t help but be struck by the huge differences in attitudes, between the brilliant athletes, who had trained for years under the most trying of circumstances, probably at huge cost, their guides, who got no recognition for their vital role, but without whose help the long jumpers couldn’t function, and the self-importance of some people who had money, status and no such physical disadvantages. In situations like that, you certainly see the best and the worst in people!”

Across the pond... Penny

Sunday, September 2, 2012

Searching for Self

One of my favorite hobbies is shopping.  Not just any kind of shopping, I'm talking high end shopping, handbags, shoes, jewelry, you name it, I have a love affair with all things fashion.  Yesterday I spent some time at the mall.  While at the mall, I had the opportunity to spend time with items from my favorite designers, Michael Kors, Coach, Gucci and several others.  I cannot explain to you the feeling of exhilaration that overcomes me as I pick up each pair of shoes, or carry each handbag.  There is something about finely crafted leather handbags and beautiful shoes that just draw me to them.  I imagine all things beautiful in my closet which has been designed to look slightly like a little boutique.  Every handbag on display.  The scent of channel #5 greets me as I enter the doorway of my own little retreat.

But, here is the question I began to ponder.  Beyond the handbags, jewelry and shoes, how have I truly defined myself?  As I continue to add to the collections in my closet, how have I further defined my life and my sense of self?  just how many handbags can I carry at one time?  Just how much jewelry do I truly need?  What is truly driving all of these purchases?  I call it a hobby.  But I am pondering, is it a hobby or a habit?  Do I do this for me or for others?  I am not certain at this point.  I know that I love fashion.  However, I am wondering how much does the fashion define me?

As I continue this journey into self reflection, I must be honest and say that I left the mall with yet another Michael Kors handbag.  It's Fall and for each season, I typically purchase a new handbag.  Oh, I'm not there yet, I said I am searching for self, I haven't completely found myself yet.  Maybe I am inside a handbag!

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Summoned by Bells, (With apologies to John Betjeman)


Summoned by Bells. (With apologies to John Betjeman).
"Well, the 2012 Olympics have come and gone, and speaking as a patriotic Brit, I’m pretty happy with the way we chaps performed, both in terms of the sporting achievements, and the overall organisation.
To come third on the medals table to the two giants of USA and China was quite a feat for a small nation like us. What’s more, when it comes to the Three Bs. We can teach the rest of the world a thing or two. (For the uninitiated, I of course mean Bikes, Boats and Boxing). Yes, no one can hold a candle to us in the velodrome, on the water or in the boxing ring, and we’re feeling smug that we even managed to tame the weather to behave itself for the duration.
The Opening Ceremony was deliciously quirky, and fun, as was something you guys across the pond didn’t know about, but which typifies our eccentricity as a nation. And I’m talking about bells.
“Any Bell. Anyone. Anywhere. 08:12 27th July At 08:12 this morning hundreds of thousands of people across the United Kingdom rang bells to celebrate the first day of the London 2012 Olympic and Paralympic Games, in a mass participation artwork by Turner Prize winning artist Martin Creed, commissioned by the London 2012 Festival.
This unique London 2012 Festival commission is one of the festival’s biggest nationwide community projects. It offered everyone in the UK the amazing opportunity to be part of a work by a Turner Prize-winning artist and of the historic celebrations for London 2012.”
Big Ben tolled forty times that morning, too, so anyone hoping for a time-check would have been out of luck. And the only Brit ever to win the Tour de France, one Bradley Wiggins, rang the huge bell in the Olympic stadium, to signal the start of the games.
Even yours truly dashed out into me back garden (‘yard’, to you folk. By the way, a yard is something different over here; namely a paved or tarmaced area, usually without plants, lawns and flowers. A garden, however, has these.) Yes, there I was, in my housecoat and slippers, clutching the bell my husband bought me as a joke and dinging it like crazy for all I was worth.
Culture Secretary, Jeremy Hunt got in trouble as a result of his enthusiasm. He was paying a visit to HMS Belfast when the time came to join the communal ringing, and gave his small handbell a vigorous ring, only to discover that though the ship he was on board was the Belfast, his particular bell wasn’t fast. The handle remained in his hand, whilst the bell flew through the air, narrowly missing several bystanders. Having checked that nobody had been injured, Mr Hunt laughed it off, comparing it with an incident from a UK comedy called Twenty Twelve."
Entry by Penny...


Penny is the lovely lady on the left.
Picture was taken in 2007 at my home.



Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Back to school


I enjoy preparing for a new school year. One of the best parts of each school year, everyone begins with a fresh slate.  A close second… new school supplies… paper, folders, pencils, markers, crayons, binders, new classrooms, and new students…

Yesterday afternoon, I met students who will be in my classroom. Later in the day, I attended a community workshop, Empowering our Children: A Community Conversation.  I am happy to resume the comfort of school routines. I am back to preparing lessons plans, taking attendance, and reviewing homework.
This morning, I volunteered to pick up International Students at the airport.  The entire community is gearing up for a new school year. 




Friday, August 3, 2012

Back to School Shopping

Remember the thrill of back to school shopping?  New clothes, shoes, backpacks all in preparation for that first day of school.  So thrilling to run into your friends as you were shopping and see what outfits they were selecting.  Now, back in the day, not too far back, we just went where our parents took us.  We rode in the car and wherever the car arrived, we were happy.  I remember a store called Air Way, kind of like a version of Target.  That was a back to school tradition.  Then, there was the mall, we'd spend a small amount of time there, in stores such as JCPenny and the Gap.

Now, fast forward to today.  I have to complete 3-4 rounds of shopping.  We visit at least 8 different stores.  And then, there's the fashion!   Don't get me wrong, I love it, but there is no simplicity in this activity.  The influence of the Disney Channel and all of the other channels that expose our children to fashion. Some parents have told me that they are glad their children have to wear uniforms.  Well,  I prefer individuality to uniformity any day of the week.  I have two little fashionistas at my house, a mix between rocker meets school girl and a edgy want to be goth mixed with edgy school girl.  

After all, the world is not uniform.  There are all different kinds of people, clothing, etc.  Everybody can't have everything.  I figure, better to learn now how to cope with difference, no matter how small.  I always wonder what happens when children go out into the world and realize that everybody is not  just alike, everybody doesn't get a trophy at the end of the game, sometimes, you have to compete, the world doesn't cater to us as individuals, we have to learn to find our own place in this world.  Oh well, enough of my seriousness, this is about fashion.

Oh, and did I mention that the Coach store has backpacks now!  Oh, I wish I was going to school!

Pictures posted later this week.

Thursday, July 26, 2012

baby love


Months before my daughter was born, I saw her on a sonogram. Holding her for the first time my heart melted. Seeing her face for the first time was amazing. So beautiful.  Her smooth caramel colored skin was silky smooth.  Her tiny body fit neatly in my arms.  Baby love…

Visiting last week in Omaha, I was struck how much she reminded me of her baby face. It was something… her hairstyle… She still has wonderful smooth skin.  She informs me… it is because she is eating clean… no processed food, no sugars, fresh fruit and vegetables.
 Every night before she was born, I prayed, God please give me the strength to be a good parent. I am blessed. God abundantly provided my every need.  I read books, sought advice, attended Le leche League meetings, and listened.  Check out le leche league here Milk
I was not the perfect parent… no one is…

Although my children are now adults, I still have baby love.

This week marks the le leche league's  20th year  of world  breastfeeding week ...