Monday, February 25, 2013

National Health Scandal


……The National Health Scandal.
1948 was an auspicious year in Britain, for two reasons. First, it was the year of my birth, and second, it saw another birth, that of the National Health Service;- a cradle-to-grave, free-at-the-point-of delivery, universal healthcare system for all, regardless of income.
It was the brainchild of the two Bs;- Aneurin Bevan and William Beveridge, and is funded by taxes and National Insurance contributions from all those in work. For sixty years it has been the envy of the rest of the world, and in particular, the Americans who are of a Democratic political persuasion, and who are often faced with crippling bills when they need treatment,- or in the case of the very poor and disadvantaged, who cannot afford private medical cover, and who consequently may have to go untreated.
Yes, our system is essentially simple, like all really great ideas, and for the most part, easy to administer and happily accepted by most of us who contribute financially to it. But of course, all good things come to an end, and over the decades, the NHS has come under huge pressure for several reasons.
One is the fact that people are living longer and longer, and so are requiring more healthcare and for longer. Another is that science and technology inevitably moves on, and we are now able to offer folk more and more complex procedures, which naturally, they wish  to avail themselves of, whatever the expense. Consequently, the Health Service has been creaking and groaning under the strain of trying to provide everything to everyone and within budget.
In 2007, things started to go badly wrong at my local hospital, Stafford, part of the Mid Staffs Healthcare Trust. Those in charge were determined to gain Foundation Trust status; something which would give them more say-so as to how funds were used and services delivered. But corners were cut and staff numbers fell to dangerous levels in an attempt to reach the targets demanded to gain this status.
Many, many people suffered poor care, neglect and even abuse, hospital infection levels were sky-high, and over a three year period, the number of deaths of patients went through the roof. It resulted in three separate enquiries, including the Francis Enquiry, which took evidence from hundreds of folk and which reported its findings two weeks ago. The press has been full of calls for those responsible, most of whom have moved on, to resign and morale amongst remaining staff is at an all-time low. Stafford Hospital has gone down in history as the greatest scandal in healthcare since the formation of the NHS;- atitle which we prefer not to have.
My own dear husband was a patient during this period, and his was one of the cases investigated. We were called to give evidence to one of the earlier enquiries and ultimately awarded compensation for his experience. Sadly, he died before he could receive the money, which might have made his last weeks more comfortable and enjoyable.
What has happened has made me very sad. Not just because he had to go through all that horror, but because, despite some awful neglect and ineptitude, he did have two excellent nurses, both male, and one of whom was a young Spanish man. Both tried their hardest to do a good job in the most difficult of circumstances, and to be caring to both patients and loved ones. They must be devastated to have been unfairly branded ‘murderes’ by families of some of those who died and who still feel tremendous resentment and hurt and want someone ‘to pay’.
We need our local hospital and MUST support its efforts to improve. We can’t live in the past. However painful it is, we must lay it down, learn from it and move forward, together, or we may find the powers that be have decided enough is enough, and Stafford Hospital has been closed down
“Colin’s Story- the Hezekiah Years” tells of my husband’s childhood, his Christian faith and experiences at the hospital as is available from www.selahministies.co.uk- books testimony. Proceeds to our local hospice..

Across the pond ... Penny






Tuesday, January 29, 2013

What Matters Most

Today, I was able, to spend time with my 9-year old.  Keiana was home from school today with strep throat.  Usually, I would be very conflicted with the choice between staying home with my child and going to work.  However, today, as my alarm clock rang and faced with that choice, my answer was seemingly clear.  You see, I have given so much to Corporate America over the past 20 years.  I have worked the 14-15 hour days.  I have worked on numerous teams and projects, all in the name of trying to secure a spot for myself at the head of somebody else's table.  Now, don't get me wrong.  I have loved most every position I have held and enjoy the varied opportunities.  However, the seat I have at the table at my own house is also valuable.  I have come to realize that the people sitting in the boardroom of my own home hold me in much greater esteem than any corporation that I have ever been fortunate enough to work.

While someone else may be evaluating my performance in regards to some ever changing set of criteria,  my family's criteria stays the same.  I know what to expect when I walk through the door.  The same little energetic dog will greet me.  There will be, although it may vary, two daughters, with their demands of homework, drama, cheerleading and the like.  A husband, with a whole other set of wants and needs.  However, their will be no superficial judgement, no competition for that elusive position that may or may not exist, just a family, waiting to be loved unconditionally.

Today, I had a makeover from a 9 year old.  I helped with homework from yesterday and watched re-runs of the Brady Bunch and Good Times.  No, I didn't write any strategic plans or any business objectives, but, what will be remembered most?  I think the bad make-up job and the crazy episode of Good Times we watched.

I am truly re-evaluating what matters most.  Yes, I still am very ambitious about my career.  However, I think, I have to re-evaluate how I get to the next phase of my career.  Maybe the corporate ladder will have to be my own ladder.  Maybe the seat at the table will have to be a table I create for myself with people that I invite.  I think too many of us, women to be specific, sit around, waiting to be invited to the table, when we are the ones cooking the meal!

Friday, January 4, 2013

Lunch with a friend

Delicious appetizers
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow described hospitality as sitting with gladness.  This is a perfect description of my lunch  today. I was glad when Carol extended an invitation for lunch. She is  a gracious hostess and a gourmet cook.

The best part of our time together, we discuss everything.
We share a love of our family, friends, and our faith in God.


Desserts... and Bavarian Cream....
Corn Chowder 

Lovely table setting
and dear friends

Saturday, December 22, 2012

Do something

We don't have to feel powerless in the face of suffering.   What do we do in the midst of tragedy?  Ed Stetzer has offered some suggestions. Click here to read more.  Broken World
 I have shared a portion of his article.

"We sense inside us a God-given desire to alleviate as much pain as possible with the tools and opportunities God has placed at our disposal. We hate watching people suffer from the debilitating effects of evil in the world. We want to see fallen and broken world, with its hurt and pain, driven back and overthrown. Yet, we can be pretty good at drowning out our heart's compassion with large doses of television and distractions, but deep down we want to be part of making a difference in others' lives.
So, don't just watch the television news. Do something to change the broken world-- show and share the love of Jesus. Again. More.
The hurting world needs God's people living as those who care, because we do care. We can't fix everything, but we can do something.
Let's grieve with and pray for the hurting. Let's call the world what it is-- broken. Then, let's recommit ourselves to living for Jesus and others in a broken world.
Hold your kids, cling to Jesus, and cry out, "Your Kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven." Maranatha."

Friday, December 21, 2012

On and on again



We chaps over here never cease to marvel at you guys’ attitudes to guns. Once again, more horrific news headlines this week of yet another school shooting in USA, made all the more poignant because of the young age of the victims, and of the time of year, Christmas.
Everyone can’t have failed to have been horrified and distraught when confronted by the pictures of grieving parents, and photos of tiny tots, who should have been starting out on life, only to have their futures so brutally and senselessly snuffed out, by some strange, disaffected and disturbed individual who had ready access to lethal weaponry to sate his blood lust and wreak terrible revenge on others.
And yet, these grim headlines have become commonplace. Columbine, Aurora, Virginia Tech, shopping malls, church prayer meetings, and many, many more, including of course, perhaps the worst of all, and plumbing even greater depths of depravity, Newtown.
Certainly, the pro-gun lobby is on the back foot, pledging ‘meaningful dialogue’, and a fresh look at gun ownership, but one wonders if this will blow over as the immediate horror fades into memory, and the status quo will prevail.
Why oh why are you fellows so wedded to your weapons? The Second Amendment is history….written at a time when society was very different from today. Surely you don’t love your guns more than your children, for that’s how it seems to us on this side of the Atlantic?
You can never legislate for the mentally disturbed, and guns are available in both our countries, to folk who will seek them out. But surely we should make it as difficult as possible to obtain them, and some high-power automatic weapons are simply not appropriate for private ownership.
Come on America. Wake up and smell the coffee. Parents, rise up! Make Newtown memorable for being the last such mass shootings, so that those poor children and their bereft parents have something positive come out of their misery.
Across the pond Penny

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

"On and on and on"



Well, you guys finally got around to electing your President, and are we Brits glad it’s all over for another four years! You take so long over it, and take it all so seriously; as if it were a matter of life and death! As if it really mattered who is in charge! We chaps are much more cynical and (let’s face it), realistic. We believe that whoever governs, they are all just as bad. Nothing will really change. The real power is in the hands of multi-million pound corporations and big business. Presidents and Prime Ministers are nothing more than figureheads, with very limited influence. Why, we wonder, are you all so idealistic? Why do you continue to set such store by it all? To get so exercised by it? Have you not learned from past experience? And the worst thing is that we have been having chapter and verse of it for the past six months. It was beginning to feel as though we were the 51st state of the USA; as if we didn’t have any news of our own on this side of the pond.

You see, we go about it all quite differently. And I’d like to bet (though I’m not a gambler) that you don’t get all our electioneering every time you turn on your TVs. Huh? No. I thought not!
Of course, unlike you, we’ve got Madge. (For the uninitiated, that’s Her Majesty).
And we elect Members of Parliament. At least, those of us who can still be bothered to vote at all. 
And then the party with the greatest number of votes forms the next government, and they elect their leader, taking account of the views of their supporters and, in the case of the Labour Party, trade union membership.  It all over in a relative blink of an eye, and with so much less fuss and who ha. And we don’t inflict it on you!

Anyway, that’s quite enough of that! On to more important things, and now your elections are over, to some unwelcome news which, for the second time this year is making headlines here. The weather. November has seen almost continuous rainfall, and many poor folk have had their homes flooded for the second or third time in a few short months. You may recall from my previous submission that the British summer 2012 was the wettest for one hundred years. Now we are informed by the Met. Office that November was Britain's wettest ever, with an average of 217.4 mm of rain across the UK. Some places had a whole month’s worth in just one day, and at least two people lost their lives in the flooding. The emergency services have been at full stretch, rescuing stranded people and pumping out affected houses. Thousands of people are now facing a massive clear-up, the prospect of being homeless for Christmas, due to uninhabitable housing, and the likelihood of being unable to insure their properties in future. The boffins have promised us a spell of cold, winter, but thankfully DRY weather over the next few days, but the ground is so sodden that any amount of rain in the near future will no doubt result in further problems. Roll on spring 2013.The sooner this year is over, the better, though it won’t quickly be forgotten. So you see, it’s hard to know what holds the record for going on and on the most. Our lousy weather, or your boring Presidential elections!

 Across the pond...Penny

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Help from friends

 November's Cooking Light Lunch... See the Thanksgiving Plate

Last week I sent out an email requesting help with a recipe. I was  preparing dressing for Thanksgiving dinner.  I could tell something was wrong. To the rescue…Cooking Light BFF Ruth Anne.   Yes, add more chicken broth!   Yes! It works.  Turn off the computer. Later in the day, I turn on my computer. Ginny shares add chicken broth and butter. Becky… yes…. In the midst of the day, they took time to help me. 

For years, I would ask my mother for her recipe. I never got it right. After she was no longer available, I tried many recipes. This year, Jerry gently suggested I try a recipe he found.  This brings me to Thanksgiving morning and the email. Who do I contact in the middle of preparing a recipe? Cooking Light friends! Who do you call when you need help?   Who supports your efforts? Who is your prayer partner? 
Friends, Christie and Stan...
Wonderful friends who traveled to support my exhibit earlier this month.